Thanks for all the help on this:
1) mbrsolution: removing all but one leaves me with only one product showing. Meaning all of the other products disappear except for the one that the has [show_wp_shopping_cart]. So that was a no go unfortunately
2) mra13: I have added the cart shortcode [always_show_wp_shopping_cart] and now I can see the shopping cart there, but it randomly selects whatever it chooses to be the first item? Even if you go to men's apparel it will have the women's pink racerback tank top as the first item. But, at least the cart is showing with the paypal option.
Is there anything I can do now in order to avoid the plug-in from randomly selecting a piece of apparel? Or is there any way to not "always have the wp shopping cart showing" but still give the individual the option of clicking the "add to shopping cart" button and having the shopping cart appear?
Take a look at the Apparel portion (Men and Women) for FoodBodyFitness.com and let me know what you think! At least I have something going for me now. I left it up there so you can take a look and see if you can figure something out. Thank you so much!